Debate Questions for Couples: Spark Romance, Fun & Spicy Conversations



We've collected debate questions that are perfect for couples. They’re grouped by mood (romantic, fun, controversial and revealing) so you can choose the right discussion for date night or a cozy afternoon chat.



Each question links back to a live VersyTalks discussion so you can see how others have weighed in.



Romantic & Relationship Debate Questions



1. Communication vs. compromise: Is open dialogue or the willingness to bend more important for long‑term success?
2. Physical attraction or intellectual connection?  Should you prioritize chemistry or the meeting of minds?
3. Should couples take compatibility tests before marriage? 
4. Is emotional cheating worse than physical cheating? 
5. Arranged marriages vs. free‑choice dating – Should families or algorithms pick your partner?
6. Astrological signs in dating – Should zodiac signs guide romantic decisions?
7. Online dating’s effect on relationships – Has swiping changed the dating scene for better or worse?
8. Should men show more emotions? 



Fun & Light‑Hearted Debate Questions



1. Is cereal a soup?
2. Should vacations be planned or spontaneous?
3. Santa Claus as a role model?
4. Is money the key to happiness?
5. Is lying ever ethically justified?



Controversial & Ethical Debate Questions



1. Should people license parenthood?
2. Should women receive paid leave during menstruation? 
3. Should gaming platforms encourage online dating? 
4. Should parents have access to their teenagers’ dating‑app accounts? 
5. Should parents be legally responsible for their children’s cyberbullying?
6. Strict vs. permissive parenting, which one is better?



Conversation‑Starters & Revealing Questions



1. Should children learn empathy at school? 
2. Should children be required to take care of an animal?
3. Should grades be replaced with personalized growth reports?



How to Use These Questions



Pick a mood and choose one or two questions. Set a timer (e.g., five minutes each) to present your viewpoints without interruption, then discuss where you agree or differ. You’ll not only practice listening and argumentation but also learn about your partner’s assumptions and experiences.



These debate questions for couples cover romantic dilemmas, playful hypotheticals, ethical issues and family planning. Whether you’re dating, engaged or married, they offer opportunities to connect, laugh and understand each other better. Enjoy the journey of exploring ideas together!